Marriage separation non dating agreement
I hope these writings will be received in the manner in which they were written. These writings and the many others like it are the reasons I see it as such a high priority to strengthen marriages sexually.
In recent months I’ve begun to use the phrase “involuntary celibacy” to describe my current sexual status.
Like Job, I want to be able and willing to receive counsel from anyone God puts in my path.
God created us to grow in the context of community.
It’s an emotional intimacy, a bond, a joy-filled exchange of love; being with another person who wants to be with me and wants to please me and desires me to please them.
I don’t really care for the song very much, but Cheap Trick definitely captured the essence of how I feel with these words: “I want you to want me; I need you to need me.” Most men never get this.
I keep the phrase (and the truth behind it) mainly to myself (and my journal) with an occasional exception, when I find a listening ear. But the term is rather fitting, since I have about as much of a sex life as a typical priest.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and Certified Sex Therapist (CST), Laura M.You can have those on your own and still feel void.And it’s not just “sex” per se, either, that I need.Perhaps instead of seeking first for the kingdom of God and His righteousness, I’m seeking first for sex. I’ve never said this before and have spent more time journaling as if I’m Job and that God’s trying to kill me.Whatever it is, I need to try to sit still and listen. I need to focus on the truth…) But if I’ve begun to want sex more than God, He might take the drastic step of holding back the sex to prevent me from idolatry, while trying to lure me to truly love Him first.